Friday, August 28, 2009
We're walkin!!
And then last week. Last week we noticed those 3 or 4 steps were turning into 8 or 10. AND on her birthday, she was still at that 8 or 10 step mark, but more consistently getting up and crawling much less.
Early this week... crawling has quickly come to a hault. Franny wants to walk everywhere and she's at a good 25+ steps. It was literally within a two day timeframe that the walking really commenced and she'd taken off.
So... I can officially say "We're Walking". Exciting times, and I'm sure mom and dad will be kept on their toes even more now.
(I really try hard not to 'compare' the girls, but it's interesting to look at milestones... Nece was about 13 1/2 months when she started walking. Convinced that Franny just wants to keep up with her big sister).
Monday, August 24, 2009
Up up and away!
I was outside talking with the neighbors while the 3 kids (my girls and Mya) were out playing. Rob made a comment about how it would be cool to attach our names and see how far the balloons went flying.
As we're having this conversation, little attention is being paid to Mya and Nece. The girls it seems were having a little too much fun with the balloons. They decided to pull the cement weight out and 'see what would happen'. We didn't know this was happening until we looked over and watched as the girls had just let the balloons go.
We were kind of confused as to why the weight wasn't holding them down, and thought for sure they were coming back. WRONG. It seems the weight was laying on the driveway and up, up and away the balloons went. The balloons made it above all the trees, and the last we saw they were heading north. Too bad we didn't get our names attached to the balloons to see how far they really made it.
All the while, Mya thought it was pretty cool to watch the balloons fly overhead. Nece thought it was kind of cool until she put two and two together. She realized the balloons were NOT coming back down and absolute hysterics ensued. She wanted us to get those balloons... she was livid, she wanted those balloons back. The hysterics went on for a good hour... she was MAD. We tried telling her that we'd get more for a special occasion, it was our way of saying hello to great-grandma in heaven, that it was what it was and everything we could think of. To no avail. At one point, I seriously thought I was going to have to take her to the grocery store to get more balloons.
After a couple hours she calmed down enough over the balloons to tell me 'mom... the balloons flew really high and I was really mad.' Being the good mom I am (I know, I'm tooting my own horn), I used this as a 'teaching moment'. Teaching moment that balloons can fly away and that it is okay to experience the emotions of sadness and being mad.
A week later... the balloons are still brought up on a daily basis. If I had to venture to guess, this little incident is not one that will be forgotten soon, and she'll never take the weights out again to she what will happen.
Until the next birthday rolls around, we're balloon free at the M household!
Happy First Birthday Franny!!
Is it a boy or a girl?!?!
August 16 came and past. This was the original due date of baby #2. I was uncomfortable, but mentally prepared at this point because Nece was late. Then, August 18th rolled around. Ahh... this was it. There were contractions coming on a regular basis and I had a doctors appointment that morning... I went to the doctor and the contractions all but stopped. They told me to head over to the hospital because it was indeed time. We checked in, got monitored and nothing. Seriously, are you kidding me, I'm done and I'm ready to have this baby. Nothing... and we were sent home from the hospital, with a new DR appt for Thursday. It was a LONG week... and I was done and ready. Nothing on Tues, nothing on Wednesday and by Thursday I called into work... I just couldn't do it anymore. Hit the DR office on Thursday afternoon, and I vividly remember the doctor asking me, do you want to be induced tomorrow. YES... I'm done.
Friday morning rolled around, and we were told to call the hospital that morning to see if they had 'room' for me, or if Labor and Delivery was full. 6:30AM... we called and were told, yes, you can come in. THANK GOD was all I could think of at this point. We got Nece packed up and sent her to Auntie Mona's that morning. I gave hugs and kisses before daddy took Nece next door, and I was a bit sad... knowing that life was about to change tremendously for our little girl, but at the same time, I was excited knowing we were going to give her a sibling.
Off to the hospital we went. It was night and day from July 6, 2006. The drive to the hospital was remarkably calm. We parked the van and walked into Labor and Delivery to check in. Easy as pie... this was. We got checked into the room, changed, hooked up to monitors and waited for the doctor to arrive and begin the induction.
It was around 8:30AM and doctor arrived. She broke the water and started the pitocin. Okay... there is no turning back now, and we're going to have this baby. The waiting game begins, and it's time to pull the baby book out. You see, Marc and I hadn't come up with baby names yet. We went through the girls names, and it came fairly quickly. Kara seemed to be a good girls name and we knew the middle name was going to be Frances in honor of Marc's grandma, who was battling conjestive heart fairure. Boys names, ahhh... we couldn't come up with anything. To be honest, I don't remember what our boy name was going to be, but we did come up with something.
9AM rolled around, still no problems. Small contractions, but nothing uncomfortable. 9:15, 9:30AM still doing well, but a bit more pain. 9:45 doable, 10AM... okay- I'm done and ready for an epidural. Called the nurse, filled out appropriate paperwork and ready to call for the epi. Finally around 10:30 the doctor rolled in and began the epidural. At this time, I was 3 centimeters... He finished about 10:50 and I vaguely remember 11A hitting and telling Marc, I have to push. He called the nurse- I thought NO WAY is this happening this quickly.
She checked me just after 11A and said, you're ready to push. Holy crap, I went from 3 to 10 in a matter of 30 minutes. Mind you, the epidural has barely taken effect and it was time to call the doctor and push. The doctor arrived around 11:10 (I think) and it was go-time. Pushed for about 20 minutes and at 11:33 AM on August 22, our 2nd child had arrived.
I clearly remember saying 'what is it?'
You have a baby girl. Our Kara Frances had arrived. 3 hours from start to finish, and a VERY different, much more relaxed experience from when Nece arrived. And all those worries of being able to love a second child at the same time... no fear, there is more than enough love for those two babies.
Monday, August 10, 2009
Pictures!!
Tuesday, August 4, 2009
The Garden...
YES, there are weeds in there... but seriously, trust me... there are many plants too.
The Wedding...
But of course, we know kids... and we know that kids don't always cooperate when it's their turn to shine. On Saturday the wagon was pulled out and Nece couldn't wait for Franny to sit in the wagon and push her. She got about four pews up, realized there was loud music playing and she had approximately 200 people staring at her. She turned back, and looked at me with the 'deer in headlights' stare... and this is what happened.
It was really okay though... you never know what to expect from a three and almost one year old. Cindy was prepared for whatever was about to happen that day, and she wasn't going to let it ruin it... only add a bit of character to it!
After the wedding, the girls went back with Emmie and Shauni (our babysitters for the weekend) and had a fun filled evening at the hotel. They went swimming, played with Arial, ordered pizza, ate lots of snacks and just enjoyed staying in the hotel. As I called up around 9P to see if the girls wanted to come down... I was informed they were both out cold. They were tuckered out from their big weekend, and it gave mommy and daddy some time to relax, cut loose and enjoy some adult time, with quite a few cocktails! Indeed a good time was had by all.
It was a very fast weekend, but one with memories to last a lifetime. One of the most very special things for me about the weekend, was the privlege my girls had to wear their flower girl dresses made by their 90 year old great grandma (my grandma). Those are true keepsakes that I will treasure forever, and know my girls will also appreciate as they get older.
Thank you grandma... something we will be able to treasure forever! We love you.
Monday, August 3, 2009
I know...
Wedding weekend... pictures to come and detailed blog to come. A good time was had by all.
After the big weekend... it sure has been hard to get overly-motivated. I think that is probably what happens after a VERY busy close to three months. We've enjoyed some down-time these last couple weekends and are getting ready for a couple busy ones beginning August 15.
More to come on what we've been up to for the last month... very shortly.
OK- I'll commit. I'll have this blog updated by the end of the week with pictures and all! If I don't you can come after me!
So... if you've been gone. Please come back, and tell your whoever else too... I promise more to come soon!